Ruthie and Connie: Every Room in the House 2002 on netflix

They’re Jewish, they’re grandmothers, and they’re lesbians. But they’re also so much more, as you’ll find out in Deborah Dickson’s powerful and intimate documentary. Ruth Berman and Connie Kurtz first met in Brooklyn in 1959, both young married women raising their young children. Becoming fast friends, they soon both moved with their families near Coney Island, where they became active community leaders. Then, in 1974, something incredible happened – they fell in love.